September 24, 2007

3 Quick Tips For Having Great Conversations with Women.

Think back to the last time you had a conversation with a woman you were interested in.

Let me ask you something... what were you focusing on the MOST? Was it:

* How to talk to woman that I just met so she can feel attracted to me? * How to ask her phone number? * How to make good impression to her, so she'll like me?

I've been thinking about this a lot today, and I realized that one of the biggest mistakes us guys make is that we are too focused on "what she thinks of us" or "if we're going to get what we want (phone number, first date, etc)"... that we completely forget the purpose of the conversation, which is...

Getting to know the person in front of you!

Well, I've got a few great tips for you to use next time you talk to a nice looking girl and can make a great conversations with her. Here's a quick recap of the 3 tips...

1. Notice what she gives you.

Notice what cues she gives you to work with. Often she'll reveal tiny snippets of personal information, hoping that you'll take the ball and run with it. Pay attention to what she says, and use it as a doorway into deeper, and better conversation.

2. Ask her questions about her personal interests and passions.

Try to get off the small talk after a few minutes. Start with something innocent and minor, but try to take the conversation to a personal level. It makes it more interesting for the both of you. Trust me, she DOESN'T want the conversation to stay surface level the whole time. If she does, then find someone else.

3. Offer a date, not ask a date

You're not a child who has to ask permission anymore. If you want to take a woman out, just let her know that you're interested in make an offer to spend time together at some place interesting.

It sounds simple right? Now, You already know "how to talk to woman". The only things, you must remember the 3 tips above when you're in the real world talking to a real woman. By doing that you'll not loosen up, and you can start genuinely try to get to know her, and she'll FEEL OK with that.If she feels like you are actually interested in her, she'll become MUCH more interested in YOU. GOOD LUCK!

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