Do you know that women do not think the same way as man? If you try to understand what a woman is thinking you will be forever lost. Let me asking you again : Do you know how to talk to woman that you feel attracted to? Do you know how to approach a woman you that you are interested? What do you say to her?Here I am going to tell you the 5 tips when you approaching her:
First thing to do is relax and be yourself. Women hate men who are dishonest or are trying to be something they are not. They can spot a jerk a mile off. Don't use some kind of phony line. Your line may get you a few laughs but its not you.
If youre meeting a woman for the first time introduce yourself. Stick out your hand to shake hands. There is nothing wrong with offering your hand to shake. Women like the same courtesy you would offer to another man. Don't squeeze her hand just let be firm and not a limp dish rag either. If she is interested in talking to you she will let you know with her response, body language, etc. Don't force the issue if she isn't interested nothing you say or do will change her mind.
Always be polite even if she tends to be rude and standoffish. She is a human being and deserves the same respect you would give another man. Many men find themselves coming up short cause they try to push themselves on a woman. A woman will talk to you and want to get to know you if you make her feel comfortable. If she feels uncomfortable she will want to get out of there. She will use any excuse to steer you off.
Don't violate her space. A woman will set up an acceptable distance between you and her. As she gets more comfortable her body language will point towards you. If her body language is pulling away from you she may be uncomfortable or not interested in you at all. Don't misjudge politeness for interest.
Be honest with yourself if the woman your talking to does not interest you. You may discover you have not any interest in her after talking to her. Don't waste her time and hers. Be polite but bow out of the conversation.
Don't make promises you won't or cannot keep. Always be honest in your relationships. Just to be polite and tell someone you will call them is not the way to do it. If your not planning on calling don't say you will. She will feel a lot better about you if you just be honest up front. You never know you might have made a good friend even if you are not in a relationship.
Some meetings never develop beyond the initial conversation. But you never know if a friendship could be cultivated from it. Women love to have guy friends just as much as female friendships. This goes the same for men. If you keep these things in mind you will have some very positive experiences with women. HAVE A NICE TRY!
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