Creating and posting your profile to a website specialized in online dating can be your chance to meet your soul mate. But how can you tell you covered the essential points in your profile or what proves you your profile is a complex one ready to attract many persons? Here are some steps you can follow this assuring your success.
1. Don't pretend to be something that you are not You should not be afraid to show what you really are as you are unique.These 150 words can bring about an exquisite personality if you are sincere. Don't try to be something you are not as online dating is encouraging the most intimate feelings to come out. You can tell everything about yourself with no reason to be ashamed of: it is impossible that you won't find someone to be attracted to your real-self.
You should state loud: I really believe I should be sincere to myself and others because I believe in trust and I am not afraid of being criticized. At least one quality can be found here: I am honest no matter what. I know that there are persons who will disagree but what I can do least is state my own belief and principles because they make me what I am.
Online dating can be understood as a commercial for your person but a sincere one with no trace of manipulation and mischievous intentions. For once in your life you can be 100% proud of what you are.
2. Be unique and original You must have confidence in yourself and strongly believe that you can be yourself without stopping to be original in the mean time. You should fear what is average, common and usual and come up with something which is entirely fingerprinted by you in your profile for online dating. All your passions may be stated because they are unique and matching only with you. These are important for the person reading your profile so as to make a clear idea of what you really are. However if you feel the need to be outstanding or at least different do it. This will not be considered outrageous but original.
3. Try to think like the person reading your profile for online dating If you do this you will get rid of that vital need of our's for coming along everybody's expectancies. You should always think of what you want that person to be like, according to your own standards. Try to be funny if you are looking for a person with a good sense of humor-that person will respond only to a person who is not boring.
Online dating cannot be criticized as it is the best way to make friends with no connection to some persons you already know. Why am I saying this? Because when you are introduced to a certain person you can never be sure of the opinion he has about you as you don't know what he was told. Online dating helps you create your own image with no alterations.
September 27, 2007
How To Flirt Online
Face to face flirting is often intended to elicit interest from a potential mate through playful and flattering behavior. There are several different components that are involved in the art of flirtation. These can include the type of conversation that one engages in, the brief episodes of physical touch and overall body language.
Flirting over the internet is complicated because it is not possible to exhibit many of the typical face to face flirting cues. However, many clever singles have discovered how to overcome the limitations of flirting online with great success. Here are a few of their strategies.
When you first interact with someone online it is wise to communicate in a conservative, non-flirtatious manner. It is imperative that you learn the comfort boundaries of your flirt partner. Gradually you will learn when it will be appropriate to behave in a more casual and playful way.
Do not be overly flirtatious. Discussing seriously intimate situations, being too open with sexual conversations, and using obviously sexually charged emoticons (small logos inserted into an emails or instant messages that carry a message like a bumper sticker on car), can be a real turn off. It is also more fun to ensure that you leave some topics for later when you may choose to meet in person.
Avoid using a lot of abbreviated internet lingo when having a conversation. Many people overuse the common acronyms like "LOL" (Laugh Out Load), and "BRB" (Be Right Back). It's annoying and may give the wrong impression about you.
Follow up with an email message or an electronic "thank you" card after a good instant message session. Many people, particularly females, will enjoy and take a positive note of this little act of kindness.
Understand human nature. It is a proven psychological fact that people see themselves as the most important aspect of their life. It is important to allow people to talk about themselves. Ask them questions about their daily activities and their interests. Individuals are attracted to those who take a keen interest in their lives.
Flirting commonly involves learning how to offer compliments. People almost always enjoy a well delivered, sincere, specific compliment. The compliments that you issue should be about something deeper than just their appearance. Perhaps the individual has an interesting hobby, is very successful in their job or is very involved with their children. Try complimenting the character, self control, endurance, tenacity or hard work required of their success instead of the success itself.
Finally be natural. Be yourself. Many individuals have the tendency to act like someone that they are not when they are online. Not only does this immediately reflect on you in a negative way but, it also can work against you later on. This is particularly true if the individual records all of your conversations only to discover later that you often contradicted yourself.
Always remember that the most powerful technique for successful online flirting simply involves patiently taking a sincere, honest interest in the other person.
Flirting over the internet is complicated because it is not possible to exhibit many of the typical face to face flirting cues. However, many clever singles have discovered how to overcome the limitations of flirting online with great success. Here are a few of their strategies.
When you first interact with someone online it is wise to communicate in a conservative, non-flirtatious manner. It is imperative that you learn the comfort boundaries of your flirt partner. Gradually you will learn when it will be appropriate to behave in a more casual and playful way.
Do not be overly flirtatious. Discussing seriously intimate situations, being too open with sexual conversations, and using obviously sexually charged emoticons (small logos inserted into an emails or instant messages that carry a message like a bumper sticker on car), can be a real turn off. It is also more fun to ensure that you leave some topics for later when you may choose to meet in person.
Avoid using a lot of abbreviated internet lingo when having a conversation. Many people overuse the common acronyms like "LOL" (Laugh Out Load), and "BRB" (Be Right Back). It's annoying and may give the wrong impression about you.
Follow up with an email message or an electronic "thank you" card after a good instant message session. Many people, particularly females, will enjoy and take a positive note of this little act of kindness.
Understand human nature. It is a proven psychological fact that people see themselves as the most important aspect of their life. It is important to allow people to talk about themselves. Ask them questions about their daily activities and their interests. Individuals are attracted to those who take a keen interest in their lives.
Flirting commonly involves learning how to offer compliments. People almost always enjoy a well delivered, sincere, specific compliment. The compliments that you issue should be about something deeper than just their appearance. Perhaps the individual has an interesting hobby, is very successful in their job or is very involved with their children. Try complimenting the character, self control, endurance, tenacity or hard work required of their success instead of the success itself.
Finally be natural. Be yourself. Many individuals have the tendency to act like someone that they are not when they are online. Not only does this immediately reflect on you in a negative way but, it also can work against you later on. This is particularly true if the individual records all of your conversations only to discover later that you often contradicted yourself.
Always remember that the most powerful technique for successful online flirting simply involves patiently taking a sincere, honest interest in the other person.
What Women Want: Why Listening is Often The Solution.
If you are familiar with women at all, you will surely know that they like to talk about things. It makes no difference what it is; talking it out is always the solution for them. Making sure that the situation is dealt with is one thing that most women, not all, will want to do.
Listening and not talking:
Listening is the solution. You need to be able to talk to people and hear what is going on. It is important to make sure that two people sit down and talk about things that are going on in their life. Make sure that you are doing all that you can to keep the lines of communication open. Having good communication is going to be a good source to rely on for any problem that will come up.
When a woman wants to talk things out this generally means that she wants to do all the chatting. She will probably take control of the situation and the best thing that you can do is listen. You should sit there and pay close attention to all that she is saying, taking in every word so that you are hearing it as she wants you to.
You may not have the opportunity to speak but if you are asked a question or she wants you to join in on the discussion, chances are you better do it. If you do not talk to her and keep the conversation going, you will probably find that she gets irritated and this will only add to the problem.
Do not feel like it:
There will be times when a man does not feel like talking about the things that are going on in life. Some men do not want to sit down and talk things out. This is just the way that some men are. However it is true that if a woman wants to talk to a man about something that is going on in their relationship most of the time they will not take it seriously. They will think that it is just her mood and nothing to get all worked up about.
The first thing that a man should realize is that you cannot blow off anything that a woman wants to talk about. You have to take it serious and sit down and work it all out.
She will feel better knowing that you want to take the time to listen to what she has to say and that she is important to you. Having time to discus the problems that are going on or anything that is making her unhappy is what she will probably want to talk out. This is going to be something that is important for both people to work out.
You have to be willing to sit down and talk to each other. It is going to be a big part of what is going on. You need to make sure that you doing all that you can to make things better within the family. You have to take the steps forward in order to improve the situation that you are in. This maybe difficult at first but it is something that can be done when you put your mind to it.
A big ordeal:
It is true that women sometimes like to make more out of something than what they should. This is part of life and something that is going to happen repeatedly.
It does not matter what the topic is, if a woman wants to sit and talk things out it is going to be best that you do it. You will never hear the end of it if you do not. Taking a few minutes out of your day to talk to and listen to your partner is going to make all the difference especially when it comes to making her happy.
Many times, the KEY is really just sitting down besides her and listening to her stories. Most women need to share to sort out their thoughts. You will even notice that they feel and get better with their moods if there is just someone who would be patient enough to sit down and listen to her for a while.
When you are not sure what she wants to hear or what you should say, the one thing to remember is that, you are usually always safe with an apology. This is going to be true for just about any situation.
Make sure that they understand and know that you are going to make an effort to fix the problem. If you are still not sure what the big ordeal is about, you may want to try to notice some of the things that she says or yells about.
Once you have the basics, you can then begin trying to figure out what she wants and how you should go about doing it. For men reading this, you might feel like it is really a chore to sit down and listen when you don't really wish to (depending on your own mood during that particular moment and timing), but really think about this.
At least, she is looking out for you and hoping that you are the one who would listen to her! Do not wait until some other guys come along and snatch her away from you, just because they can listen to her better than you can!
Listening and not talking:
Listening is the solution. You need to be able to talk to people and hear what is going on. It is important to make sure that two people sit down and talk about things that are going on in their life. Make sure that you are doing all that you can to keep the lines of communication open. Having good communication is going to be a good source to rely on for any problem that will come up.
When a woman wants to talk things out this generally means that she wants to do all the chatting. She will probably take control of the situation and the best thing that you can do is listen. You should sit there and pay close attention to all that she is saying, taking in every word so that you are hearing it as she wants you to.
You may not have the opportunity to speak but if you are asked a question or she wants you to join in on the discussion, chances are you better do it. If you do not talk to her and keep the conversation going, you will probably find that she gets irritated and this will only add to the problem.
Do not feel like it:
There will be times when a man does not feel like talking about the things that are going on in life. Some men do not want to sit down and talk things out. This is just the way that some men are. However it is true that if a woman wants to talk to a man about something that is going on in their relationship most of the time they will not take it seriously. They will think that it is just her mood and nothing to get all worked up about.
The first thing that a man should realize is that you cannot blow off anything that a woman wants to talk about. You have to take it serious and sit down and work it all out.
She will feel better knowing that you want to take the time to listen to what she has to say and that she is important to you. Having time to discus the problems that are going on or anything that is making her unhappy is what she will probably want to talk out. This is going to be something that is important for both people to work out.
You have to be willing to sit down and talk to each other. It is going to be a big part of what is going on. You need to make sure that you doing all that you can to make things better within the family. You have to take the steps forward in order to improve the situation that you are in. This maybe difficult at first but it is something that can be done when you put your mind to it.
A big ordeal:
It is true that women sometimes like to make more out of something than what they should. This is part of life and something that is going to happen repeatedly.
It does not matter what the topic is, if a woman wants to sit and talk things out it is going to be best that you do it. You will never hear the end of it if you do not. Taking a few minutes out of your day to talk to and listen to your partner is going to make all the difference especially when it comes to making her happy.
Many times, the KEY is really just sitting down besides her and listening to her stories. Most women need to share to sort out their thoughts. You will even notice that they feel and get better with their moods if there is just someone who would be patient enough to sit down and listen to her for a while.
When you are not sure what she wants to hear or what you should say, the one thing to remember is that, you are usually always safe with an apology. This is going to be true for just about any situation.
Make sure that they understand and know that you are going to make an effort to fix the problem. If you are still not sure what the big ordeal is about, you may want to try to notice some of the things that she says or yells about.
Once you have the basics, you can then begin trying to figure out what she wants and how you should go about doing it. For men reading this, you might feel like it is really a chore to sit down and listen when you don't really wish to (depending on your own mood during that particular moment and timing), but really think about this.
At least, she is looking out for you and hoping that you are the one who would listen to her! Do not wait until some other guys come along and snatch her away from you, just because they can listen to her better than you can!
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